The Friendship Engineer
Ready to Engineer Your Social Life — Together?
I’m opening 2 founding‑client spots for high agency builders ready for a step‑by‑step system (tested on 100+ friendships) to turn “I should get out more” into 3+ new friends in under 90 days.
2 Seats Only · 90 Day Roadmap · One Month of 1-on-1 Coaching
“As a newcomer to Austin your frameworks have been a lifesaver. In just a few weeks, I’m already building a real community.”
— Vincent M.
What you get
✓ Transform your social life by making 3+ genuine friends over the next 90 days
✓ The tools to build a lifetime of new relationships
✓ Friendship Pipeline Deep-Dive (90 min) – pinpoint your friendship bottlenecks
✓ 3 Strategy Sprints (60 min weekly) – leave each call with a tested 7 day action plan
✓ Personalized Metrics Dashboard – track new connections and follow-ups to see your Social ROI in real time
✓ Unlimited DM support – feedback within 24 h whenever you hit a snag
Why Me
I wasn’t always a social butterfly. In fact, I spent most of my life feeling deeply lonely. Extroverted but unable to make friends.So I engineered a solution. Using systems-thinking, I built a framework that helped me make 100+ friends in a new city in under a year.Now, I want to share it with you.• “The method totally works. I just had it happen to me the other day. Someone I knew from high school invited me to a cultural dance class. I haven't really had any good friends since I graduated high school a few years ago, so I though it would be a good opportunity to meet some people, and wow, not only was it pretty fun, I met soooo many people and have started the process of making some good friends.”
— Hanan M.• “Straight‑up invaluable advice.”
— @maksamurai• "I absolutely love your videos! I really think that people have lost the true art of hosting and hospitality!"
— @missys4918
Who It's For
• Analytical builders who know how to work, but not how to network
• Willing to spend ~3 hrs/week leaving the house
• Ready to trade feedback for a founding‑client rate99% of social advice is useless.• "Just put yourself out there."
• "Be yourself"
• "Go to meetup.com"I built this for systems-thinkers and introverts who want reliable outcomes, not vague advice.
People who ask:• What's my concrete goal in this social interaction?
• What are the 3 steps I need to get there?
• What script can I use to build confidence?
Investment
• Regular Price: $1499
• Founding‑client rate: $499 (save $1000)
Prices will increase once the first case‑study results go public.
“Connor knows what other people don’t … future most valuable author of his time.”
— Eamon M.
Apply Now
First come, first served. When the two seats fill, doors close until summer. If you’ve been waiting for a nudge, this is it.
FAQ
How much time do I need to devote to the program?
Plan on ~1 hour/week for our coaching call and 3–4 hours/week for real‑world reps (going to events, hosting a hang, following up). That’s it. About the same time you’d spend scrolling, but now it’s compounding into relationships.
Do I have to do anything special for the Founder Cohort?
Yes. In exchange for offering a reduced rate, I ask that you fill out an exit survey for me and provide feedback along the way. Additionally, you will provide a testimonial that I can use in marketing materials going forward.
What if I follow the plan and still don't make friends?
Give the system an honest 90‑day run (do the calls, complete the weekly actions).
If you don’t have at least 3 new, recurring social connections by day 90, I’ll refund you in full and book a bonus strategy session to troubleshoot. Zero risk, all upside.
What's the refund policy?
Simple: Love it or get 100% back.
Just email me within the first 30 days and you’ll be fully refunded. No hoops, no hard feelings.
What if I'm introverted?
Great! Introverts often build the deepest friendships once they have a repeatable process.On our first call, we'll talk about your goals and your comfort zone to tailor your weekly action plan so you’re spending your energy on high‑return moves (small‑group hangs, 1‑to‑1 follow‑ups) rather than draining mixers.
What if I'm extroverted?
Perfect! You’ve already got social energy. This program channels it into systems and follow‑through so your many “Hey, we should hangs” turn into a reliable crew, not a pile of half‑finished DMs.
Will these skills help me at work?
Absolutely. The same frameworks that create friendships (clear invitations, consistent follow‑ups, trust‑building) also make you the colleague people want on every project. Expect smoother collaboration, faster referrals, and a stronger professional network.
What happens on the intro call?
This is a casual 15-minute chat to see if we’re a good fit.I'll ask a few quick questions about your goals, share how the program works, and leave time for any questions you have. There’s no pressure and nothing to prepare. Just show up curious!If it feels like a match, I’ll explain how to move forward. If not, you’ll still leave with a couple of insights and ideas to try on your own.
This program looks great, except for this one thing...
Great! I love the feedback. Send me an email and let me know how we can make this even more of a success for you.